How to be non judgemental? How can I stop judging as I see it spoils relationship and peace?
You cant, No one can, Everyone has a two sides to them that which is acceptable and that which is not to their belief system of what is right and what is wrong.
These are sometimes referred to as the core condition because all are necessary to create a safe, comfortable environment in which the person will talk more openly.
or to simply get them to let their guard down,